Resource Toolkit: Friendship Tips

Cultivating a garden takes some dedication and skill, and friendships need this too. One of the big improvements in my 50s and 60s has been more and better friendships. These friendships oil the gearbox of life: lubricating changes and crises which could be...

Football as a map of the inner life for men

Since so many men share my love for the game, it seems appropriate to use it as a guide or metaphor for the inner life in a blog intended for men. The image of the club is like your image in the world around you. Whatever your present reality, the glories or otherwise...

Getting married at 50?

Recommended – if you’ve got the right woman! I first got married at the age of 22.  It’s painful for me to look at those wedding photos from 1971: I look so young, and naïve.  And it’s true: my experience of life and relationship was small.  No one in their early...